Analyze your relationship with both girls. What do you actually want from each of the girls? Just a physical relation? Marriage? A fun time? Soul mate? This is a very important decision, or you’ll be stuck with something you don’t want.
What does one girl offer that the other one doesn’t? Which one do you enjoy being with more? Who do you have better conversations with? Who do you have the most fun with? Who do you try new things with? Answer all of these questions before moving on.
Make a table with one column for each girl, and list as many good qualities as you can think of. The one who has the longest list is probably the best one for you, but if you’re still not sure, keep reading.
Locate any qualities that both girls share, and cross them off the list. You are now left with a list of unique qualities that each girl has. Review these qualities and compare which ones you like best. The girl with the most and best unique qualities is most likely the one you should choose. Also if you want list the bad qualities and the one with the least bad qualities is also most likely the one you should choose.
Once you make your decision, be direct about it, and don’t waste time worrying about your decision. Do not flip flop between the girls. Girls love it when you’re direct. Girls love actions. Remember, actions speak louder than words. Figure out where she is one night and surprise her. Go up to her and just tell her, “I can’t bear to be without you.” She’ll melt. They go for that stuff, once in a while. Also, remember that anything can be fixed.
If you aren’t satisfied with the steps above, pick whichever girl you have the most in common with.
Let the other girl down easy. Talk to her and explain the predicament. The worst thing you can do is ignore her or bottle the feelings.
If you’ve chosen already and believe you have chosen wrongly, go back and fix your mistakes. It’ll take some time and some bonding, but you’ll be better for it.
Not all girls are the same, some may fall for stupid silly tricks, some may not.
Be ready to live with your decision, if you choose one, you probably will never get the chance to go out with the other if you chose wrong. Think long and hard.
Don’t let the girls know you are observing them for unique traits! They will certainly put on a show if they know you are watching. You need to determine their real qualities.
You’re unlikely to be able to see both of them at the same time. If you play with both, you may lose them both. Play one, and keep something up your sleeve should it fall through. Don’t lose both girls needlessly, when one will do.
You can’t have strong feelings for one person while you’re going out with someone else. It’ll ruin the relationship you do have.
If you actually say “I can’t bear to live without you”, make sure you say it seriously, or else most likely they will laugh.
This will usally work, but sometimes you could over look something important. This isn’t absolute, this will help you decide but you have to make the decision with who you wanted to be with.
Don’t think things are going to work themselves out if you just let things go and wait. All this will do is cause you to lose both girls, and then you will be unhappy.
Don’t cheat on them! The worst possible thing to do is date both girls at a time. It will ruin all of your relationships, and then you’ll be worse off than you ever were.